Simple Planning Guide: How to Elope Instead of a Wedding
How to Elope Instead of a Wedding
Introduction
Many couples today are choosing to elope rather than have a traditional wedding. Wondering how to elope and whether it’s right for you? This guide breaks it down step by step.
Eloping is less about skipping your wedding day and more about creating a day that reflects your relationship.
What Does It Mean to Elope?
Modern elopements prioritize intimacy and intention over secrecy. They may include:
Just you as the couple
A small group of guests
A meaningful or destination location
Step-by-Step Guide to Eloping
Identify what matters most to you as a couple.
Choose a meaningful location
Secure permits and an officiant
Hire an elopement photographer or Andrew Samplawski Photography (shameless plug)
Plan the ceremony and any celebration
Many couples work with elopement planners or elopement photographers to ensure logistics run smoothly, locations and permits are secured, and you don’t have to worry about looking at your watch.
Why Couples Choose to Elope
Couples often elope to:
Reduce stress
Preserve privacy
Focus on the experience rather than tradition
Compare eloping to a small wedding in our complete guide: Elopement vs Small Wedding — Which Is the Perfect Option for You?
Costs of Eloping
Elopements often allow couples to allocate budget toward travel, photography, or experiences rather than an extensive guest list. Some couples will spend $5,000 where others will spend $10,000. This varies based on the elopement location you have in mind, who’s coming, whether you, as the couple, are paying for any close family or guests' accommodations, and what you decide to do for food & entertainment.
The best part…
Eloping creates an authentic, unrushed wedding day. If a traditional wedding doesn’t align with your vision, eloping can offer a perfect, intimate alternative.